DR. HAYDEN KHO AND KATRINA HALILI VIDEO SCANDAL

Bragging about screwing a girl is a high school thing. It is in adolescent age where it is always full of fun and confusion. I remember highchool days when everyone was looking forward to that first base on a girl, but nobody could hardly pursue. I realize now that it was so foolish of us to have desired of such experience. But it was how it was then, pretending to be conquerors when we were really not. We could not even conquer ourselves in the first place. It was associating sex to manhood as a true measure of conquest of all.

Times have gone so fast. We are in a new age where technology has somehow improved a lot. Spreading acts of sexual conquest by word of mouth is a thing of the past. Boys now use a medium like portable camera or cellular phones with built in camera to prove that indeed such a conquest really took place.

The desire to show off is innate in men, specially in sexual promiscuity. We can look back to prehistoric age where savage men when determination to hunt for food and sex makes no difference. Man must have gotten this savagery from our animal nature. Conquest may also come in the form of academic excellence, sports and or by simply bullying around.

Those who have successfully manage to show excellence in one of these forms are usually those who grow up accomplished individuals. It does always follow though that those who failed are doomed to perdition. It is a question of how one overcomes these shortcomings, accepting realities and growing up mature that molds the true person as he grows. Failure to outgrow results to insecurity.

There were those who were not brave enough to have failed to prove to himself that he was a real man. Many will think that he was short of many things when sex never transpired in high school days. It leaves an empty mark in them which if never outgrown would create a psychological scar within. This failure hangs up on him which may haunt him forever until he grows up .

On the same token, I recall known child actors and actresses in the past who because of childhood show business exposure were deprived of childhood joys. They longed to play with kids of their age but instead they were in front of the camera shooting for movies or recording a song. My theory, if this is true, may have an example in the person of Michael Jackson, who at his age today built a huge playground in his home to probably patch up lost childhood days, and he called it the neverland .

Could it be that flaunting a sexual act on video is another form of hang up? could it be that during their adolescence they were deprived of such a recognition? These hang up is not only limited to adolescence but may also be extended back to childhood days.

I am writing this blog in relation to what is spreading in the net right now. the sex scandal of Dr Hayden Kho. It is shameful as it is to highest level! A professional doctor known by many, trusted by many and is looked upon in the society is involved in sexual scandals with famous actresses and commercial model. Worse is that these videos are loaded in the net for everyone to see. Hayden Kho may not be who uploaded the video, but certainly it got to the hands of somebody of whom he must have shared the experience to.

Still at fault no matter what...Pervert!